Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Contemplating Wisdom.

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We all want it right? What does it look like? I've been thinking about wisdom a lot lately. I think the truly wise are truly humble and meek and gentle and otherwise full of beautiful fruit. When I examine my life I can see internalized wisdom, head knowledge that comes with experience but I will be the first to admit that I long for that rich wisdom that oozes love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness and self control in sticky situations. Here are a few thoughts that have been ministering to me from a little bible study handbook that has been gracing my bathroom shelf for the past month *wink*.

Wisdom is a lifelong process.

The maturation process will continue until the day we die. We need to seek God's wisdom every day of our lives. Every new set of circumstances, every new stage of life will require that we be involved in the lifelong discipline of seeking God's wisdom.

Wisdom is a painful process.

The discipline required in the search for God's wisdom will always involve some pain. Pain, however, produces a harvest of righteousness and peace. (Hebrews 12:11)

Acquiring wisdom is a necessary process for obedience.

The catch is that we must ensure we are acquiring God's wisdom. Wisdom has always been a highly desirable quality. The quest for wisdom was the basis for the first temptation and eventual fall of mankind. The serpent presented the fruit of the tree as the pathway to wisdom. However, there was no wisdom in the serpent's advice because eating the fruit was a direct contradiction of God's will. Today there exists an abundance of counterfeit wisdom. Popular talk shows and magazines offer advice and counsel to millions who seek guidance on living abundantly in this (as every other) complicated age. In order to weed our way through all the counterfeit wisdom in our society, we must know the characteristics of God's wisdom.

God's wisdom is.... (James 3:17)

Pure.

We can be sure that any counsel or advice that violates God's standards of moral purity is not wisdom from God. But beyond just moral purity, God's wisdom promotes purity of heart and motive. Any thought or action that contradicts God's holiness should be weeded out of our lives. This has been a big one for me lately. I've been suffering from what I could deem "righteous indignation" over a number of circumstances in my life. What God came to show me this past week is that if I am not feeling intrinsic love and concern and a desire to pray fervently for the people/situations that I am feeling indignant about then I have given the enemy a foothold to set up shop and corrupt me. It doesn't mean that I am not right in my assessment of what is going on, but the way I choose to respond to the situation is the proof in the pudding of how spiritually mature or immature I really am.

Peace Loving.

Those who are wise will seek to preserve peace where it exists and restore peace where it no longer exists. The wise woman will endeavor to create an atmosphere of calmness and serenity in her home and in all of her relationships. Through organization and decor and attitude she can develop an environment and a character that is conducive to peace. Through her joyful and calm spirit she can bring God's peace to everyone around her. I cried when I read this, and I tear up even now, typing it out. This is a deep seated desire of mine, to be beautiful and to bless and minister and restore by seeking to acquire and live out this kind of peace.

Considerate.

Heavenly wisdom is not rude or smug. It does not persist in self-promoting or monopolizing conversation, but provides a listening ear and a compassionate heart. It pays as much attention to the feelings of a child as to the feelings of a person of worldly rank or importance. It doesn't let anyone fall through the cracks. It builds people up rather than making them feel inferior and second rate.

Submissive.

It is willing to yield to reasonable requests out of an intrinsic trust in God's sovereignty and His desire for us to serve rather than to be served.

Full of mercy and good fruit.

Acting in accordance with God's wisdom means readily extending forgiveness to all who offend us. Such action frees us from the bonds of bitterness. It also helps us understand and receive God's unconditional acceptance of us. Heavenly wisdom goes a step beyond forgiveness though, by including the offer of goodness to others. Generosity and cheerfulness will be typical actions of a wise woman.

Impartial and sincere.

A wise person need not hide any part of his or her person from another. Impartiality and sincerity go hand and hand. If you are impartial, you can be sincere and your sincerity will bless and minister to others and build intimacy and trust through the bonds of fellowship.

"If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." James 1:5

"Wisdom is supreme, therefore get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding. Esteem her, and she will exalt you; embrace her, and she will honor you. She will set a garland of grace on your head and present you with a crown of splendor." Proverbs 4:7-9

my thoughts and excerpts from the bible study handbook "The Beauty of a Disciplined Life" by Rebecca Gates.

10 comments:

Leanne said...

~He maketh the barren woman to keep house, and to be a joyful mother of children. Praise ye the LORD.Psalm 113:9~

Beautifully put and my heart's desire also. Several parts touched me especially treating a child with the same respect as an adult and cultivating peace in our home through organization, decor and our calm attitude. Great goals for me as a "burnout" stay at home mom. I love my children and the place the Lord has me, but to tell the truth some days I am one big failure. I am earnestly praying that God will teach me, help me, guide me and lead me in this area. You write so beautifully and with so much wisdom. May God bless you so bountifully today! Leanne

PW said...

Great excerpts and thoughts on such a meaningful topic...wisdom.!!

Linda said...

Wisdom is something I have prayed for and desired all my life. I love these thoughts. Having been brought up in a Christian home my head is filled with lots of knowledge. I believe that real wisdom is the living out of that knowledge - something that really does take a lifetime.

Jennifer @ JenniferDukesLee.com said...

Oh, my, guess who came to mind when I read these words:

"Through her joyful and calm spirit she can bring God's peace to everyone around her."

I thought of YOU!

You've created such an environment here, in your prairie space. This is an environment of peace and joy, and this is an extension of who you are. It oozes from your photos and your words ... and your life.

Press on, dear one.

Unknown said...

*Leanne*, I'm earnestly praying the same thing alonside you, friend. Thank you for your blessing, YOU bless.

*Linda*, thank you for your wisdom and experience here. I love how you worded that, "WISDOM is the living out of KNOWLEDGE." Perfect.

*Jennifer*, when I read your comment I started bawling. To think that in any small way I am attaining and reflecting the peace and calm and joy that I (ironically enough) STRIVE for, well, sometimes I am so busy fighting to practice these disciplines (like the little engine huffing and puffing "I think I can, I think I can, I think I can) that I don't realize that I AM!

Your words blessed me beyond expression, made me cry and smile all at once, and gave me encouragement to keep on chuggin' along, and I needed that encouragement to keep my eyes focused on these pure and peace loving things today. THANK YOU.

Robin said...

Hey Prairie Chick we seem to be on the same thought track, wisdom. I prayed today that God would grant the same wisdom Solomon asked for and that He would keep me from falling away from His way...I do not want to fall away from faith when I grow older. Many do. I desire to be strong in the Lord until the day I see Him face to face. Your blog is full of peace and I love the header.

Your friend robin

Andrea said...

wonderful thoughts Nic.
Thank you for organizing them so well.
You are a special soul here in "blogland" and with me!
Thank you for your beautiful example. It helps me to know that there is someone else out there working to find wisdom and God's peace in their life. Blesssings!

Jen said...

These words are a balm to my soul. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us. Keep writing! We need to hear more of this.

DayPhoto said...

That photo of the bird against the roof is so perfect woth the topic.

Linda
http://coloradofarmlife.wordpress.com

Emily said...

That verse from James has been one of my favorite 'pondering' verses for the last 15 years or so. It always seems a little richer for the pondering, too. Thanks for your reflections.